How to Say I Love You without Saying the Words - A Man's Guide

We all know that LOVE is the most important element to maintain a great relationship.

Have you ever met a woman that wanted to live a miserable life? Probably not!

I’ve never met a woman that did not want to have the most ultimate life with their man, a life full of joy and love, a life of contentment, friendship and happiness.

But how can that be possible? How can you cope with your problems and issues of life without compromising your relationship with your loved one?

The answer for that is called good communication.

No, I am not talking about saying I Love You every 15 minutes.

You can actually say you love your spouse without having to say those three words.

You are communicating with her all the time, even when you are not talking with her. There are many other ways to say I Love You.

But how can you do that?

The answer is easier said than done, but you must make a commitment to yourself that you are going to do your best, or at least try.

Here are just a few tips, but it is a good start:

This is an old one…

NO, she is not asking you to pee sitting down. All she is asking you is to lift the toilet seat, pee, flush and put it back down. It is that simple.

Another old one…

She is a lady, doors are heavy and dirty; open the door for her. Let her go first, hold while she passes, walk in and close the door behind yourself. Is it that hard? I guess not!

Come on; don’t pretend you can't see that the garbage can is full. If it is full, take it out, no questions asked.

This one is polemic… :)

Why she always have to wash the dishes or put the dishes in the dishwasher by herself?

Do it for her sometimes; without her having to ask you to.

Even better, invite yourself to help her on a daily basis, it can be fun and you two can talk while working on this boring task.

I can even see your woman reading this article and saying “Oh yes; that is what I am talking about!”

Yes guys, this is a great plus. It doesn’t need to be her birthday or Valentine’s Day to be a special day. Every day is a special day if you make it special, so get up earlier than her at least once a week and bring her breakfast in bed.

I am talking about Her Breakfast, not only a cup of coffee or a glass of milk.

I am saying a good breakfast with things that she likes in the morning, a variety of fruits, bread, cheese, cereal, eggs, milk, coffee… you got the idea.

By the way, if you don’t have a Breakfast Tray, order one and surprise her. 

Yes, taking her out to a nice dinner is wonderful. But how about cooking for her? How about preparing something for her that you made with love and care?

The first thing you need to do is learn what she likes to eat, exactly how she likes it done. Don’t tell her what you are going to do, surprise her. Make her feel loved, not only with the main dish but also with all accompanying dishes and a good wine.

Make sure you pre-prepare everything first. Don’t make her sit for a couple hours waiting, while you struggle in the kitchen, getting stressed and ruining everything.

Set the table; get some candles, nice plates, silverware and napkins.

Let her enjoy her meal; talk about pleasant things. Remember this is a special night for her.

You don’t have to do the dishes right after dinner, enjoy your time with her and relax. But you have to do the dishes, never make her do it.

She is getting old, and so are you. She gained some weight, and so did you with your big old belly.

So, workout together, walk to the park together, eat health together, enroll in a dancing class … do something! But do it together.

She doesn’t need to be reminded how old she is getting or how big she is. She needs you by her side, helping and supporting her, always.

Yes, make her the number one person in your life. Think about her first, her feelings and emotions. Give her the very best of you, because she only deserves the best.

I can guarantee, she will be happier and a lot more loving towards you always.

Man can say I love you, but if they don’t back it up with actions, it means nothing.

You want to improve even more your relationship with her? Please read:

• 10 Ultimate Compliments Women Love
• Simple and Little Gestures that Make a Huge Difference in Your Life

I hope this will help you have a great life with your girlfriend or spouse.

Thanks for reading and best wishes to all...

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